What Sometimes Happen After A Boy Learns Your Number
Sometimes it happens that you go somewhere and there you have a chance to meet a new guy. He seemed nice to you and interested but he then never calls you back. There are few possibilities why guys get the number and never call.
Number 1 is that guys are usually lazy. They spend their time without any set priorities and when they remember that they took a number from a girl, weeks have already passed by so they decide to drop the idea of calling and look for someone else instead.
Besides laziness there is egoism too, you could be his ego target. He would have seen you somewhere and simply for his satisfaction he took your number and never had any plan to call you.
When a guy gets a good response from a girl or the girl even likes him so much that she agrees on giving out her number, the guy really likes it as an ego booster.
Wait, there could be another reason. He did ask for your number but later when he thought about the meeting, he would ignore making the call because you may not be his type of girl who wants to go for sex.
A guy would call only if he thinks well of you and if he thought of you often since he met you last.
If you have exchanged numbers and have been the one calling him, he may get too lazy to call you since he had not been receiving calls from you. Also, he may be looking to see how long it would take you call him even if he doesn’t.
Lastly, the most important thing to remember is that you don’t have to wait for a guy hoping that he would call, forget the loser. Make it known that somewhere out there is a guy who can’t wait to pick up his phone and dial your number.
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If He Calls AND Texts But Doesn’t Ask you Out?
Are you wondering about someone who keeps calling you and texting you often, though never wanted to see you? If he really liked your company, he must have been desperate to go out with you. It is as simple as that. Then, why does he call and text you? You may wonder. Why he calls or text you may be the reason that he wishes to keep you on the line as a second choice, while somebody else may be his priority.
There may be reasons on the background of such behaviour from the guys. It may be that he shies away from making a commitment. Or, he may be unsure of his mind about you. It may be that he is much more interested in other girls, while he does not want to loose you to make sure that you are there, if his preferred relationship did not materialize. He must be thinking about you as he calls you, but he is not committed enough. His lack of commitment shows in his behaviour.
The guy that keeps you on that back burner will normally have a few clever tricks up his sleeve to get out of a promise. Thinking that he cannot keep you on the back burner forever he might move forward but with some clever clauses.
If you are alert enough, you will find him to keep ready some excuses to back out. He would be using uncertain words and phrases like “may be” or “I’ll let you know. He may cite those excuses in future if he needed to back out.
Recall your own behaviour in a similar situation. Did you have a guy whom you liked but you were not certain whether you wanted to make a commitment? You had to use excuses with similar words of ambiguity, like, “I’ll let you know”, or, “may be”. These words make it easier for you to back out.
The bottom line though, if a guy is calling and texting and not asking you out, he is not pursuing a relationship with you. He isn’t serious. This doesn’t mean he won’t change his mind, but as long as you are waiting on his call, hoping he will step up, you are wasting energy. There are ways to handle these calls and texts to get him to step it up, but waiting around on him isn’t going to work.
When he calls and texts it is important that you know how to respond. Find out how texting guys in the right way can have him begging for more and hanging on your every word.




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